What to do if you are long and tedious to say that you will not work?

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   During our conversation with him I asked clarifying questions to understand the essence of the argument, because a grain of truth there was in fact. No need to defend themselves, we must carefully listen to criticism, if not hysterical and stupid. I learned some new things about the local market and was wondering about some marketing moves. He had the feeling that he communicates with a professional person and not mindless. Plus, he has left a feeling of self-importance, and we eventually agreed to return to the conversation at 3 months, when it becomes clear what we have and what is not. And if we succeed, he will sign a contract with us in spite of his doubts.
   


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   After our conversation I have with him a couple of hours depressirovala and fell into doubt the very. Yes, such things are hard to overcome, but it should be. That is, the mind realizes that it must chew, you have to leave and spit, and emotions that are. To remove the emotional part, if you can not help themselves, talk with like-minded.
   


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   Then we had a very constructive discussion on Skype, which no comparison is not with what turns out to record, especially when it is done (as in our podcast ). That's where the real truth of life, the real discussion of real problems (and all in real time) ))) If it were not for profanity, which unfortunately is present in our discussions when there is some emotional background, I would have recorded and posted . Because you can feel how it actually happens, it is puzzling to create your own business. We have examined all the possible obstacles, which said the man, understood to what extent it is significant, incidentally discussed pricing and project management scheme. And most importantly, still after all this, not pessimism, and the form factor and the understanding that some things should be done even better than we had planned.
   

In general, in the end, what can I say about the attitude to criticism?.

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  listen to it carefully;.
  


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  Separate the arguments of their emotional feelings. Over the first to think, the second - to extinguish;.
  


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  does not conflict with the person who criticizes you is extensive. He drew attention to you in the future it could turn into money.
  

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